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First, as an American you are held in pretty high regard in Colombia so you need to measure up to this in columbian dating.
Second, anything you can do to make a connection with the spanish dating culture is a positive. After all, you probably dated
alot of American women and you are going to marry single columbian women that tells you something. Colombia's culture is in
lots of ways is in the 50s & 60s. It is old fashion showing respect to the spanish women who in many ways made your
future spanish mail order brides what she is today only makes sense. Your first steps with your in laws can set the tone forever
this is more important than your first day at work so you need to do it right. Be sincere, do not give too many gifts, just
follow your columbian mail order brides lead. Remember, it is not custom to give the family big gifts or anything like that.
A friend of mine got tricked into giving a living room set to the new in laws and when these Columbian girls go to the
US all they could do was complain about there new house and how she had to redeocrate and everything was wrong.
Ultimately, they fought and divorced. Sincere spanish ladies, no matter how humble, are not going to lead with their
hand out for money. You need to size up your wife's family because they will be a part of your life forever. So while you
are busy trying to make a good impression on the family, they will be trying to make a good one on you. Keep in mind you are
going to be giving their spanish girls a new life with lots of extra opportunity in the US which seems to be a frequent Latin
dream. It is just good manners Of course, it is not a permission to marry we are talking about here. It is a bendicion really
just a formality, but it makes both parts to feel good about this proposal. A marriage is always a social contract; both families
are involved and observing a bit of social grace to make this union agreeable for both families is just such a minor effort
for huge dividends, both short term and long term. Showing consideration and caring for other columbian ladies feelings will.